Networking - Blah
Networking if you’re talking about computers can be fun. Networking if you’re talking about awkward small talk and feeling out of place is not. At least, not for me. There’s a woman at my church who always refers to me as a social butterfly. The reality is I only want to socialize with the people that I already know and like. (Even if at some point new people do join this list).
Meeting new people is hard. It takes a lot of energy to be “on”.
I know some people are energized by the idea and, maybe, act of socializing and meeting new people. That’s not me. I’m not necessarily an introvert, but I can guarantee I’m not an extrovert.
Last year, I made business cards that were filled with my surface pattern designs. They are cute and they make great bookmarks or mini art pieces. They should (I know I hate that word) make conversations easier. But I still have a hard time selling myself.
The conversation always goes a little something like this,:
Me: “I see that you could use some more art in your life, let me give you my business card.”
Me, not even waiting for you to examine the card.
“One side is a pattern that I designed myself and the other is a QR code to get in touch with me. But you don’t have to follow me or really do anything, I really just like to make art and share it with people. You can use it as a bookmark. Really, the more I give out, means I’m closer to make new ones with new patterns.”
Hello, my name is Laura and I am socially awkward. Anyone else encounter this while trying to network?
I’ve always been comfortable behind a keyboard or selling myself on social media. I’m certified in social media marketing. That’s easy for me, usually! Marketing myself in person, when I can see your reaction, that’s a whole different story.
What are your tips for selling yourself in-person or otherwise? How are you getting others interested in your art or services?